Unlike many parts of the world the Indian Marriage still take a traditional route whether arranged of the prospective partners decide to marry themselves. With the Indian diaspora setting their footprint globally technology comes to the rescue again.
Let us start with the matchmaking, it is more complex then the song in the Movie Fiddler on the Roof "Matchmaker", though the criteria remains about the same. Here are the lyrics to the Matchmaker Song : http://www.stlyrics.com/lyrics/fiddlerontheroof/matchmaker.htm
After the match making is done mainly through matrimony websites dedicated for this purpose which are complex matching engines and then a number of meetings between the parents and the concerned couple it is finally decided and announce it is an YES. Then come the engagement ceremony, which is today's post.
The engagement ceremony normally takes place in the groom's residence , a priest is called to first pray to the gods and then a contract or what is known 'lagna patrika' is drawn and announced containing the date, time and venue of the marriage and is binding on both families. The bride's family brings fruits and sweetmeats and the groom's people in serve them snacks and dinner and present a sari to the bride. And also the bride then wears the new sari and ornaments presented and then the boy and girl exchange the ring.
In a global world when the boy and girl are in another continent and the parents still want to continue with this ritual there is a challenge and that is when SKYPE again comes to the rescue.
Skype supports low video and voice and is Free and so here is the Indian engagement in a global world.
The priest and parents go through the rituals in India and the couple who are not in India then participate through Skype, they can see the event and also they can be seen in the large Television provided for this telecast. Then when the turn comes for the girl and boy to go through their piece of rituals, presto the action shifts to the Television.
Thousands of miles away the girl, boy and their friend and relatives have assembled to participate in this event, they do their bit by changing garlands, changing rings and whatever else is needed all through Skype.
The engagement is over and the food and sweets are served to the guests in India and the foreign location and tradition has won again thanks to technology.
Welcome to an Indian engagement in global world, with a little help from Technology and an matching time to match both time zones for all to participate in the event.
We all cherish our traditions and why give it up when time and distance can be compressed by Technology.